Be the Buffalo
We deliver help to victims of domestic violence through community effort, clothing, and where available advocacy.
About Us
How it started
Backed by first-hand experience to the trials and tribulations that face domestic violence victims, we aim to help navigate and advocate for victims whether it be through court proceedings, finding resources, or just being an ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on.
In late 2024 the owner/operator began a very arduous process of navigating the family court system. After separating from an abusive partner and navigating domestic violence courts, resources, laws, and essentially how to be an advocate for herself, she persevered and vowed to never let another victim feel so "alone" while embarking on this journey.
Navigating something where you couldn’t get answers and had no idea what you were doing was something that she struggled with. Add in the challenges of raising children alone, managing self-care and household work as well as dealing with constant court issues it was overwhelming beyond understanding. After many hard nights, she knew she couldn’t be the only one- and so, Pretty Pink Papers was born.
After close to 2 years, and 2 final restraining orders and more pretty pink papers from violations against the order than she knew what to do with, the goal became a self-guiding journey to aide other victims to heal. We work with victims to find resources for much needed therapies, navigate areas of the Victims Crime Compensation Organization (VCCO) where available as well as provide donations of gently used clothes, shoes, and toiletries to victims who needed to escape or are in need.
The goal is to instill the motto of “Be the Buffalo” to all victims so they learn their worth, as well as learn just how strong they can be to withstand the storm.
Solutions Available in Our Online Store
Helping victims in need to obtain the necessities they need whether it is simply guidance, resources, or basic necessities.
Our Store
Any donations will go towards purchasing essential items such as shampoos, conditioners, toothbrush kits, soaps and other basic essentials.
Legal DisclaimerThis FAQ and the services provided by our organization are for informational and supportive purposes only and do not constitute legal advice, medical advice, or professional counseling. While we strive to provide accurate and up-to-date information, laws and available resources may change, and we cannot guarantee completeness or applicability to your specific situation.By using our services, you acknowledge that:We are not a law firm and do not provide legal representation or advice.We are not a medical or mental health provider.Any decisions you make based on information received from us are your own.
If you require legal advice, please consult a qualified attorney licensed in the State of New Jersey. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing an emergency, call 911 or your local emergency services immediately.Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
1. What services do you provide?
We offer support to individuals experiencing domestic violence, including:
Safety planning
Resource referrals (housing, legal, counseling)
Advocacy and emotional support
Assistance accessing essential items such as clothing and basic necessities
Our goal is to help you feel safer, supported, and empowered to make informed decisions.
2. Who can receive help from your organization?
Our services are available to anyone impacted by domestic violence, regardless of gender, age, race, religion, sexual orientation, or immigration status. You do not need to be in immediate crisis to reach out.
3. Is your support confidential?
Yes. We prioritize your privacy and confidentiality. Information you share is kept private to the fullest extent permitted by law. We will not share your information without your consent, except in limited circumstances required by law (such as mandatory reporting).
4. How do I get help?
You can contact us by phone, email, or through our website. If you are in immediate danger, please call 911. For non-emergency support, we can guide you through your options and connect you to appropriate resources.
5. Do you provide emergency shelter?
We do not directly operate shelters, but we can connect you with trusted emergency shelters and housing programs throughout New Jersey.
6. Can you help with clothing and basic necessities?
Yes. We help individuals access clothing, hygiene products, and other essential items through donations and community partnerships.
7. What is a safety plan?
A safety plan is a personalized, practical plan that helps you prepare for and respond to potentially dangerous situations. We can work with you to create a plan tailored to your circumstances.
8. Do you offer legal advice?
We do not provide legal advice. However, we can connect you with legal resources, attorneys, and organizations that specialize in domestic violence cases, including restraining orders and custody matters.
9. Are your services free?
Yes. Our services are provided at no cost to those seeking help.
10. Can someone contact you on my behalf?
Yes, a friend, family member, or advocate can reach out for general information. However, we will need your consent before providing individualized support or discussing personal details.
11. What if I’m not ready to leave my situation?
That’s okay. We respect your choices and meet you where you are. Our role is to support you, not to pressure you. You can reach out at any stage.
12. Do you help with children or families?
Yes. We can connect families with resources that support both adults and children affected by domestic violence, including counseling and family services.
Let's us help and work together
Need help? Want to donate? Please feel free to reach out to us! There are no questions asked we are simply here to help.
Donation arrangements will be made via email for pick up.
